In a married relationship, each of the partner should know how to take care of the relationship and to preserve the love which they felt toward each other in order to accomplish the vow during married (till death do us part).
Most of the common problem each married couple encounter in married life is the coolness of relationship. Their relationship become colder and it seems that they already lost the love which they felt before when they enter into married. The most common question that arises is, can love be preserve?
Yes. If that love which they feel toward each other is not fake. Or shall we say that the love they feel is true love. Meaning to say, they are true with each other when they enter that relationship.
For me the best way of preserving love relationship is to be true to each other no matter what. Temptation will not enter before married but to tell you the truth it will surely come after you have committed such thing to love the only person till death. It is a sort of a test that you are going to pass through. You will be test if how truthful you are with your partner.
To preserve love relationship, during the testing or in times of temptation, you should always put on mind and within your heart that what God has join together let no man put asunder. Sometimes it’s just a matter of material things in which we are being test, but sad to say that we give up right away. Always remember the vow “for better or for worst”. Married is not just a bed of roses, you should put in mind that we don’t always know what lies ahead. Better for today, but what if tomorrow will be worst. We should be ready for every step in our married life.
Sometimes it goes like this. When you meet another person which you feel that he/she looks better than your partner. Here starts the problem. Always put in mind that God gave you your partner because he/she is the best that God has given you. You should always remember that God does not give just better but best. Renew your commitment to your partner, let the love which you feel toward him will grow more sweeter not bitter.
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Another thing is that, when the in-laws would join such relationship and would spread different types of gossips. Here starts another problem. But the best thing to do is not to be one-sided. You should listen to both, you should judge fairly. Don’t be one-sided just because it seems that they are in a good side you should obey what they said. Maybe this is just a testing and they are being used to destroy your relationship. Always remember it’s your future not theirs.
Be true to your partner no matter what. It’s your partner who knows best about your relationship if you are just honest with each other.
