LIVE IN or MARRIAGE

Today, it is but natural for both partners to agree together not to enter into marriage because of the reason that, they are afraid to handle the responsibility, to be tied up in a full commitment  which is a life time commitment through married life. It's nice to hear that reason, but how about you, which one do you prefer? LIVE IN or MARRIAGE.

Entering into a relationship is a very easy decision a certain person would do. It's just a simple yes. After that there comes a hard task and obligation each should follow. Maybe others won't agree, but to tell you that's the truth. Even though you are not yet married there are already does and don't coming from both sides. Those were sometimes seems to be easy but sometimes those are also the things which can cause trouble with the relationship.

Some decided to live in together because of those reasons. They wanted to know each other better so that when they enter into marriage they will know how to adjust with each other. They even do that thing not thinking to get married first. Their reason for that is the compatibility. If they cannot adjust  with each other in that stage (live in) they can't meet each others expectations, it will be easier for them to separate because they are not tied up into a lifetime commitment which is married. I'm sorry but for my own opinion that's a wrong concept. Why? Because you know that before you live in together you already know each individual differences and during that time that you have that simple relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend you should already know how to adjust and if not why should you stay long? Better to break up early than before it ruins your personal life. What I mean is that, if you still go on to live in, of course you will lost one thing which is very important. A very thing every wife should be proud of in giving herself to her husband. We say husband, because its a man whom you married not live in. Live in partners cannot be called husband and wife because husband and wife were blessed by GOD in a sacred ceremony which is married.

Marriage is a lifetime decision that you are going to made and you can't easily get out of it. You marry a certain person because you know that you love him/her. If ever there are incompatibility you should know how to deal with it. You get  into that lifetime relationship so you should learn how to accept it. True love endures, it is patient and kind. For me, married is not design for compatible persons but for the incompatible in order that the love which they have will make them compatible.

Always remember, entering into relationship is easy, but to decide between live in or marriage is a hard decision to do. Just think over with the positive and negative effect of these two if which one do you prefer. If you are planning now then go, at the end it's you who will suffer or enjoy.

How to Maintain Marital Relationship

Sad to say that after marriage many relationship had broken up and ended up with annulment or either divorce. In marriage we should know how to maintain our good relationship to avoid divorce or marriage annulment. We should learn how to protect that relationship in order that it would stay longer and so to fulfill the vow, “till death do us part”.

As we know that in marital relationship we are facing different phases and in each phase each partner should learn how to adjust with each other in order to have a smooth relationship. In each phase of marriage there are different problems and let's put in mind that these problems should not lead us to separation or divorce. We should know how to work out with it, for we know that marital relationship needs to be work out because it requires a lot of work.

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After marriage, when a baby is born, sometimes the problem start at this point. The wife is busy with the baby, there is now lack of communication, insecurities and lack of attention.

As a wife it is but your obligation to look after the baby. But don't put all your time to your child, you should know how to divide your time. You should put in mind that you have a husband who needs your attention too, whom you need to communicate and let him feel the same thing that he feels before. The things that you are doing together even before you have a baby.

As a husband you should also need to understand the feeling of being a mother. Having a baby is the happiest moment in life. Much better if both of you should take care of the baby, try to talk about for the future of your baby and give them both the attention they needed from a father. Remember that you are now a father and you now need to do the obligation of a responsible father.

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Financial issue is also one of the problem that sometimes lead to misunderstanding. The only thing I know about this is that, “never make money matter an argument in your relationship”. Both of you can talk over about it in a nice way and both of you can help find ways and means in solving financial matters. If both of you can do this together there's no chance for financial matter to become the root of misunderstanding.

Jealousy also comes after marriage. The only thing needed in this problem is trust. If you love your partner you should trust him/her. Put away bad thoughts that you think about her/him. You chose your partner to be your lifetime mate, you need to show that you really love him and you do trust him.

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Always remember that marriage is a give and take relationship. You give to your partner the things he needed and in return he also gives back to you the things that is best needed. For it is a give and take relationship. It's not all just the husband who need to work for the relationship. It's not also just the wife who will work for the relationship but both of you in order to have a smooth and lasting relationship.

Don't Haste to Fall in Love

Don't haste to fall in love, wait for the right time, because love has its own timing.

In a modern world that we are living today everything seems to be in haste. Young generations at their very young age thought that they already feel the word “LOVE” because they thought that what they feel toward their opposite sex is already love. Maybe this is just the result of the world's trend today. They just follow what they hear and saw in the television because at their young age they can still be a great imitator. The shows that talks about love, attracts younger generations to try it. Lack of guidance results to negative effects. Effects which cause them to suffer throughout their entire life.

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PUPPY LOVE (infatuation)

When a certain person reaches an adolescent stage, almost experience this kind of love. This is just a sort of a crush or an dmiration to a certain person. Time will pass and this feeling will also pass. Sad to say that todays younger generation misinterpret this as the true love they feel, and some of them even commit those things which should not be done by young age children. The result is, some of them become pregnant and having an unwanted child is a very hard problem to tackle. Sometimes this is due to too much exposure to society but lack of parental guidance when it comes to love affair of children. This problem leads to their lifetime regrets.

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TRUE LOVE

True love comes when a certain person is mature enough. Mature in thinking and in making decisions. This is the time that true love takes place. A certain person knows that what he/she feels will never change no matter what and despite of. He already knows what he is doing and what to do. In making commitments there is no regrets in the later ends because he knows that he made the right decision.

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Don't haste to fall in love because true love has its own time. A true feeling that you will never regret because you are in the right age and you have the right feeling and you are mature enough in engaging into it.

JUST A SORT OF ADVICE FOR THOSE HASTY LOVERS OUT THERE.....

Divorce: End of Love

It is but a practice of some country to file a divorce if ever they want to end up their marriage relationship. Why is it that a two person bound together by love simply ends up by a divorce? Does divorce means, end of love which both person felt when they get into marriage?

Divorce is the final termination of a marital union, cancelling legal duties and responsibilities of marriage and dissolving the bonds of matrimony between the parties. In most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process. The legal process for divorce may also involve issues of spousal support, child custody, child support, distribution of property and division of debt.

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When two person decided to enter into a relationship, which is a husband and wife relationship, they did this because of the feelings that binds them which is LOVE. They live together, getting to know each other, accepting each individual differences because of love. As days went by, or even months, or years maybe because just of some reason, each of the individual decided to end up their relationship by “DIVORCE”. Forgetting all those things when they were together. Does this simply means end of love which they feel toward each other?

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Yes, for sure divorce means the end of love. Love that is not true, love that cannot endure and love that is just for better not for worst. If two person really love each other and the love they feel for each other is true and sincere,no matter what, their relationship would not end up in divorce. In every situation if love and God is the center of your relationship you can carry out every circumstances, and it will make your married life more stronger...

 

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Restore Love: Avoid Divorce

Divorce is not an answer to a sinking marriage relationship. It's not the proper and right way to restore relation or to restore love. Divorce is breaking down or shutting down a precious and harmonious union which was ordained and designed by God.

In marriage, we are always looking for love. Love that we thought always give us pleasant things and make us happy and enjoy all the time. In a marriage relationship it is love that plays the most important role all the time.

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In marriage there are misunderstandings. It is love that should understand the hard to understand relationship. Love endures hardship. There are things which sometimes turn you out to be impatient. Love helps you to be patient. Jealousy sometimes take part in marriage. Still it is love that would teach you not to be jealous, you should have trust in your partner. In every relationship, if you let love plays the role, every thing would be fine and easy to understand.

When we enter into marriage, we really long to have children. Children are the fruits of your love. As a fruit, we all want the best from them. A loving home with a mother and a father to love them and to guide them. Sometimes, if we want to end up our relationship on a divorce, we should think for it over again. All those best we want for our children could no longer be attained because there will be an absence of a home. Lacking one partner to nurture and love children is impossible to create a good and better family.

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Stop thinking Divorce think Love, what Accomplishment and Joy it can give to you and your children. RESTORE LOVE, AVOID DIVORCE. God will bless you and your family if you can come up with these decision.

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