Sad to say that after marriage many relationship had broken up and ended up with annulment or either divorce. In marriage we should know how to maintain our good relationship to avoid divorce or marriage annulment. We should learn how to protect that relationship in order that it would stay longer and so to fulfill the vow, “till death do us part”.
As we know that in marital relationship we are facing different phases and in each phase each partner should learn how to adjust with each other in order to have a smooth relationship. In each phase of marriage there are different problems and let's put in mind that these problems should not lead us to separation or divorce. We should know how to work out with it, for we know that marital relationship needs to be work out because it requires a lot of work.
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After marriage, when a baby is born, sometimes the problem start at this point. The wife is busy with the baby, there is now lack of communication, insecurities and lack of attention.
As a wife it is but your obligation to look after the baby. But don't put all your time to your child, you should know how to divide your time. You should put in mind that you have a husband who needs your attention too, whom you need to communicate and let him feel the same thing that he feels before. The things that you are doing together even before you have a baby.
As a husband you should also need to understand the feeling of being a mother. Having a baby is the happiest moment in life. Much better if both of you should take care of the baby, try to talk about for the future of your baby and give them both the attention they needed from a father. Remember that you are now a father and you now need to do the obligation of a responsible father.
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Financial issue is also one of the problem that sometimes lead to misunderstanding. The only thing I know about this is that, “never make money matter an argument in your relationship”. Both of you can talk over about it in a nice way and both of you can help find ways and means in solving financial matters. If both of you can do this together there's no chance for financial matter to become the root of misunderstanding.
Jealousy also comes after marriage. The only thing needed in this problem is trust. If you love your partner you should trust him/her. Put away bad thoughts that you think about her/him. You chose your partner to be your lifetime mate, you need to show that you really love him and you do trust him.
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Always remember that marriage is a give and take relationship. You give to your partner the things he needed and in return he also gives back to you the things that is best needed. For it is a give and take relationship. It's not all just the husband who need to work for the relationship. It's not also just the wife who will work for the relationship but both of you in order to have a smooth and lasting relationship.
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